Hey there, ladies! 💁♀️ Let’s talk about something we’ve all experienced – when a guy who seemed interested suddenly starts giving you the cold shoulder or taking forever to respond. Ugh, it can be so frustrating and confusing, right? But let’s unravel this mystery of those inconsistent men together! 💔💭
So, you know how it goes – he asks you out, sends sweet messages and compliments you like crazy. It feels great! But then he starts to pull back from you, leaving you feeling confused. So, to reassure yourself you think about all the messages, compliments and the great time you had the last time you saw him. Of course, it means that he’s into you, right?
But here’s the thing you missed:
What about those times when he does NOTHING?
It’s tempting to make excuses for his behaviour, like saying he’s too busy or shy, or maybe he’s just scared. But let me tell you, lovely ladies if a guy doesn’t make the effort to see you regularly, it’s a clear sign that he’s not serious about you. And trust me, you don’t want to waste your precious time on someone who can’t consistently see you.
If he doesn’t make the effort to see you regularly, it’s a clear sign that he’s not serious about you.
🚩🚩 🚩 So, it’s time to pay attention to his inconsistent behaviour.🚩 🚩 🚩
Pay Attention to Inconsistent Behaviour
No matter how sweet his words or emojis are, actions speak louder than words! Actions will always speak louder than words – even those sweet text messages he sends you!
If a man is interested in you, he won’t ignore you. He’ll make an effort to see you, talk to you and get to know you. If he’s not doing those things, it’s because he’s not that into you.
Trust me when I tell you not to waste your precious time on inconsistent men.
Now, I know it’s tough not to reach out to him or try to figure out what’s going on in his mind. But remember, it’s not your job to decode his mixed signals. Let those inconsistent men reveal their true colours by giving them space and doing nothing for a change. Silence is a powerful message!
If he’s still ignoring you despite liking you, remember that his lack of action says it all. He might have chased you in the beginning, but this inconsistency is a clear sign that he’s not the right match for you. His actions simply don’t match the attraction you feel for him. See him for what he is – one of those inconsistent men!
What You Should Do About Inconsistent Men
So, here’s what you should do – let his actions show you what he really wants. Don’t invest your time and emotions in someone who can’t be a compatible partner, no matter how attractive they may seem or what they say.
No matter how much you like a guy or how good you feel when you’re with him, it’s important to focus on his actions rather than his words. Recognise this pattern for what it is and see the red flag🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩! That is how you will outsmart those inconsistent men and save yourself from heartbreak.
Remember, you can’t control how someone else behaves and it’s not your fault if a guy starts ignoring you. Don’t waste your energy trying to change him or waiting for him to become serious. Trust me, it’s not worth it.
Don’t put up with this confusing behaviour, thinking it will change. If you find yourself constantly questioning, “Is he into me?” take it as a clear sign that he’s not. Don’t hold out and be patient, hoping he’ll suddenly become serious and consistent. Either he is serious or he isn’t. It’s that simple.
How You Recognise a Man Who is Ready for a Relationship
So how do you know if a man is relationship ready? Here are a few signs:
- He calls you at least once a week or more.
- He takes you on dates at least once a week.
- He texts you in between and stays in touch.
- He wants to get to know you.
- He tries to please you and win you over.
- He introduces you to his friends and family.
Look for a man who is ready for a committed relationship, someone who calls, takes you on dates, stays in touch and genuinely wants to know you. These are the signs of a man who is ready to invest in a loving partnership.
There are plenty of great guys out there, and the right one for you is waiting to sweep you off your feet. So, keep your standards high and don’t settle for anything less than you deserve. True love is out there, just waiting for you to claim it! ❤️🌟
If you want an easy way to find out if a man is right for you, why not check out How to Find the Best Match for You?
Or reach out and book a free discovery call and we can work out a plan for your success.
Debbie, Relationship Coach