Learn to Love Yourself

Give yourself the best chance of meeting the right person

Looking for love and haven't found it?

As a dating coach, if you tell me you just can’t seem to find ‘the one’ and don’t understand why, one of the first questions I will ask you is –

‘Would you date yourself?’

If you answered “No”, then we have work to do.


When you don’t truly love and believe in yourself it is easy to think the solution to your unhappiness is ‘out there’ – so you go looking for someone or something to solve it for you. You avoid looking inside, as it is scary and means acknowledging your sadness and facing your fears.

Here are some signs of self-belief issues:

  • You are always on the lookout for ‘quick’ ways to feel better. But a new haircut, outfit, possessions or a one-night stand only lifts you up for an instant and leaves you feeling worse than before. 
  • You make your life super busy and fill it up with ‘things’ so you don’t have to acknowledge how you actually feel.
  • You numb your feelings with food, alcohol or drugs.
  • You ridicule the notion of working on your self-esteem as ‘new age’ and think if you love yourself you will seem ‘up yourself’ or a ’poser’ – so you simply go on as you always have, hoping the love that you are missing will make you feel better.
  • You ‘settle’ for being treated in ways that are not good enough, or for being with someone who is not ideal for you, because you don’t think you can do any better.



It all comes back to learning how to love and fully accept yourself for all that you are.

Including the things, you don’t like about yourself. Great self-esteem is the building block of EVERYTHING you need in life.

If you have been searching for someone or something to end your unhappiness it is time to STOP and realise that loving yourself is the first step to relationship success and the most powerful thing you can do in your life!


How to Love Yourself

I know it is never too late to have the life you imagined and the relationship of your dreams, but you need some help and guidance to get on the right track. That is why I have developed my new Love Yourself self-guided seven-week program to change your self-limiting thoughts once and for all.

Because loving yourself changes your life more than anything else you can do.

When you love yourself:

  • You won’t be afraid of getting hurt. You won’t push love away or subconsciously create reasons why your relationship won’t work.
  • You can accept and enjoy being loved. This feels amazing! You won’t doubt it or sabotage your relationship or worry that you aren’t good enough or that it won’t last.
  • You won’t accept bad treatmentEVER! You know your boundaries and can say ‘NO’ with confidence. You don’t feel like you have to do anything you don’t want to.
  • You don’t need to prove anythingto anyone because you know the only opinion that matters is yours.
  • Loving yourself means you don’t hide who you really are.You can share how you feel, live your truth and own your mistakes. You won’t need to prove yourself to anyone anymore.

If you are ready to find true, generous and lasting love, this is the most important course you will EVER do. I have used the techniques from my one-on-one dating coaching to create an accessible, self-paced and affordable course that will truly transform your life.

How to love yourself by Debbie Rivers

Invaluable Help

If I guided you through the process of learning to love yourself with my face2face expert relationship coaching it would cost over $2000 dollars. In my seven week, self-guided How to Love Yourself program you get access to the same techniques and expert coaching, for the special price of only $47.

I’ll take you through seven weeks of powerful techniques that will truly transform the way you feel about yourself and impact on all your relationships – for the better.

You’ll learn how some easy modifications to your mindset and way of thinking will make your journey to finding love so much easier.

When you have experienced how much better and happier you feel after just a few weeks of putting these changes in place, you’ll wish you had found these techniques sooner. Don’t spend another year wondering where you are going wrong with your search for love. Transform your whole approach by changing the way you treat yourself first!



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