WORK WITH ME
Debbie Rivers
What if you treated finding The One like it was your job? Hey, love is serious business (but it should also be FUN!)
Coaching is the FASTEST way to get results.
As a dating and relationship coach, it’s my job to help you get the results you want in your love life — and enjoy every step of the way. I'm here to help you:
- Navigate the dating scene when you’ve been out of it for awhile (or in it for too long)
- Check how you come across to potential partners (so you don’t send them running!)
- Answer the big questions — who you are, what you want — so you have clarity about the kind of person you want in your life
- Translate confusing behaviors and mixed signals so you don’t live in doubt
- Move on from the past failures/mistakes, to let go of that negative self-talk and anything else that keeps you from being attractive to the opposite sex?
- Help you improve an existing relationship
What I ask from you is that you are willing to do what it takes to be happy again. That’s what we’re here for!

Basic
Still Single Action Plan1 Session
You only get matches 4.5% of the time, you think dating apps must be a scam, you don’t know if it’s you - or what you’re doing wrong if it is. You think “it’s a numbers game” (it isn’t). You’re treating dating like a job because you don’t want to waste anymore time on the wrong people. And you’re coming up empty. I will be lovingly honest with you about what is and is not working on your profile, in your approach, and your behaviors and patterns. (You have to market to your audience!)
This will help you find out how to get the results you’re really looking for - I’ll tell you what you’re doing wrong, what you’re doing right, and how to get better results moving forward. You’ll get an actionable plan created just for you.
You will love that:
In this single session, you will get a detailed, immediately actionable plan of what to do, and what to stop doing, to get better results in your love life. This includes a dating profile audit with specific suggestions, troubleshooting why your relationships tend to fizzle before they can flourish, and a definitive answer to: What am I doing wrong?!
One-off Personalised Session Includes:
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One 90-min private coaching
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Detailed feedback
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Personalised Dating Report/Action
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You’ll walk away with an understanding of your blind spots, clear actions to take and personalised tips to make your dating life fun and easy.
Online Dating Profile
Photo Shoot
SILVER
Singles Crash Course4 Coaching Sessions
You need some help to feel confident on the dating scene. Maybe it’s been awhile, you’re new and need a guide. Or maybe you’ve been dating without success. You’re not sure how to handle dating in the “Me Too” era, confused about what to do, and what not to do!
You’re afraid of meeting another narcissist, or of being scammed or catfished. You’d love someone in your corner for a month to help you learn to spot red flags, and tell them apart from potential red roses!
You will love that:
It's your crash-course in what you need to know about men and women to be able to attract the ones you want, communicate effectively, get more dates, and have more fun. You’ll learn how masculine and feminine energies work together (and the differences that can make or break your dating profile), and we’ll take a deep dive into your relationship history (and what you keep doing that doesn’t work for you!).
You’ll leave with practical dating strategies, tailored to you, for getting out there and getting results.
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4 Weeks Intensive Includes:
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Four 1-hour weekly sessions of private coaching
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Personalised Program Material to keep
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Weekly progress reports delivered to your inbox reinforcing what you’re working on and where to focus your energy for the best progress
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Personalised homework to keep you on track as we move through the material
Online Dating Profile
Photo Shoot
GOLD
Step Into Love3 Month Program
You'll Love this if:
You are ready to be serious about getting the relationship YOU want. The Step Into Love 3-month package continues the work we began in the 4-week crash course, because some patterns and beliefs take longer to shift.
You’re afraid you’ll take the baggage from your old relationship(s) into your new one.
You know you have a pattern of dating wrong-fit people, or narcissists, or other unhealthy partners, and you are ready to create lasting change.
You are ready to release the early-childhood programming that keeps you stuck in those loops so you can finally feel attracted to great partners. This is where we can clear the patterns that keep you stuck in miserable relationships.
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Ten- 90-minute private coaching sessions
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Personalised Program Material to keep
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Progress reports delivered to your inbox reinforcing what you’re working on and where to focus your energy for the best progress
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Personalised homework to keep you on track as we move through the material
Spotlight Coaching
Online Dating Profile
Photo Shoot
Makeover/styling
PLATINUM
Year of Transformation1 Year Program
You want ONE single program that will give YOU all you need. When you don’t just want to go “from dateless to dateable” — you’re ready to go on the deep inner journey that will help you transform into the strongest, healthiest version of yourself — this is for you.
This is for you if:
You will know what to do, what to say, how to have real authentic boundaries, and how to develop personal magnetism that’s irresistible (not like a pickup artist - this is the real deal).
We will work on your inside and outside - yep, this comes with a complete makeover to update your image and style (not changing you, just bringing out your best self).
And, when you meet someone, which is highly likely, I will be here to help you lay the foundations for an amazing, lasting relationship (so you don’t fall into self-sabotage-mode, miscommunicate, or misread what the other person is trying to tell you).
Because working on yourself, getting dates, enjoying dating — that’s not the end goal. The end goal is to be happy with yourself, and to find — and keep — lasting love.
This is what the Year of Transformation is designed to do.
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12 Month Transformation Includes:
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A year of tailored coaching sessions to meet your needs
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Personalised Program Material to keep
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Progress reports delivered to your inbox reinforcing what you’re working on and where to focus your energy for the best progress
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Personalised homework to keep you on track as we move through the material
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Complete Makeover/styling
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Photo shoot/photographs
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Online Dating Profile
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Dating events to practice your skills
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Relationship Coaching support when you find that special person
You are smart, successful and want quick results in your dating life and in your relationships.
You are ready to make a plan to get results, just like you do in any other area of your life.
Spotlight coaching is like having a personal trainer for love life - someone who keeps you accountable to stay on track, getting results and using proper form so you avoid injury!
And to remind you not to settle for less when finding the right person seems impossible.
This is a year of Spotlight coaching so you get the ongoing support and answers to find love and keep it.
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12-month Spotlight Coaching is a year-long program where you can book 20-minute sessions with me whenever you need them!
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That’s a year of on-call coaching via zoom/phone to help you in the moments when dating is hard, confusing, frustrating, or… successful.
That’s 12 months ofaccountability, support and advice (hey, you’d hire a business coach to build a successful business. Why not a dating coach for a successful love life?).
That’s four seasons to work through the practical, mental, emotional, spiritual, and surface aspects of what’s keeping you single.
This program is designed for people who are ready to take love as seriously as any Big Life Goal.That said…
There’s a catch to the Unlimited 20-minute sessions.
Because part of my job is to hold you accountable for achieving the love life results you’re after, I have a rule: You may only book your next 20-minute session after you have acted on the advice from the previous session.
You know me, I won’t sugar-coat the truth. I know for a fact that:
If you don’t want to be single, you don’t have to be. But you do have to commit to changing what isn’t working.
Stop wasting time on men or women who will never give you what you want.
- Stop the cycle of bad dates.
- Stop sabotaging good relationships.
- And stop being so hard on yourself.
- You are worthy of being loved.
Online Dating Profile
Photo Shoot
Makeover/styling
You are smart, successful and want quick results in your dating life and in your relationships.
You are ready to make a plan to get results, just like you do in any other area of your life.
Spotlight coaching is like having a personal trainer for love life - someone who keeps you accountable to stay on track, getting results and using proper form so you avoid injury!
And to remind you not to settle for less when finding the right person seems impossible.
This is a year of Spotlight coaching so you get the ongoing support and answers to find love and keep it.
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12-month Spotlight Coaching is a year-long program where you can book 20-minute sessions with me whenever you need them!
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That’s a year of on-call coaching via zoom/phone to help you in the moments when dating is hard, confusing, frustrating, or… successful.
That’s 12 monthsof accountability, support and advice (hey, you’d hire a business coach to build a successful business. Why not a dating coach for a successful love life?).
That’s four seasons to work through the practical, mental, emotional, spiritual, and surface aspects of what’s keeping you single.
This program is designed for people who are ready to take love as seriously as any Big Life Goal.That said…
There’s a catch to the Unlimited 20-minute sessions.
Because part of my job is to hold you accountable for achieving the love life results you’re after, I have a rule: You may only book your next 20-minute session after you have acted on the advice from the previous session.
You know me, I won’t sugar-coat the truth. I know for a fact that:
If you don’t want to be single, you don’t have to be. But you do have to commit to changing what isn’t working.
Stop wasting time on men or women who will never give you what you want.
- Stop the cycle of bad dates.
- Stop sabotaging good relationships.
- And stop being so hard on yourself.
- You are worthy of being loved.
Online Dating Profile
Photo Shoot
Makeover/styling